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This year is the most busiest year ever in my life.
1st of all, I had difficulties when my ex boss promoted and it’s been hell when I was under him. I have make the most difficult decision which was to resign from my previous position. It was hard and I almost wanted to cry when I knew for sure that I am leaving my ex-company. It was the most difficult decision ever made by myself for leaving my good friends behind.
This year also was my dreams came true. 1st of all, I’ve experiences how it would be to be liked and loved … although it is a brief occasion but it is sufficient. It is difficult to maintain a steady relationship especially he is so different from my world. We are completely from 2 different worlds. It was a hard decision finally, to be out of this relationship. He has uttered something that I doesn’t like which is comparing my family situation, financial situation and also most of all, he is so particular that insisted that I should be paying for my own meals..
I understand that my position is much higher than him, earning higher than him and my family condition is much better than him but I have never once spoken about these things in front of him. and even if I am earning more than him but it is not the girl’s duty to pay the bill and he is just shameless to do it.
I do understand that he is inferior complex but he has to accept it or just drop it off. I have been too lenient to him. I was never once lowered myself so low so that he can accessible to me but he never appreciated it. It is too bad because I am now again closed for any available relationship.
For me, it is hard for me to accept a person in life but never have lowered my expectation to my partner… this is also why my friends said I am just too choosy. Haha… 
Also, I’ve been dreaming of working in foreign company which is one of the reason why I went for an interview in 2006 at Microsoft. Unfortunately I was not recruited. Now, I am with one of the MNC Insurance company which is graded A+ but I am still yet to adapt to my environment in terms of job and people. Soon, I will be happy but not now.
Anyway, I have been to 5 major trips this year with my friends and family and I find this year very interesting and I’m loving it.
Next year won’t be this busy because I’ve just changed job but of course, I also planned for my trips for 2009. I am actually thinking of going Hong Kong or Beijing next year.. either one will do because I will be spending about 1-2 weeks away. Gosh.. money going out again.
Amazingly.. this year, I’ve been to Phuket (Thailand), Bandung (Indonesia), Hong Kong (China), Lang Tengah (Kuala Terengganu), and Kota Kinabalu (Sabah).
I did not plan for that many trips.. it was spontaneous planning especially my Hong Kong trip. A week before my flight scheduled. Hehe.. too bad because the weather was bad. Hong Kong was completely shut down on 6 August 2008 due to Typhoon (signal 
but I did enjoy my trip because it was my 1st trip being so far from Malaysia.
I am thinking of planning for Hong Kong (if only my planning successful), I will be going 2 extra places.. Shen Zhen and also Macau. I wish that my precious planning will be successful. Even then, if my Hong Kong not successful, I will go on tour to Beijing, China with my friend. Uncertainty in my planning. It may change overtime.
Besides that, I have 2 confirmed trips; Bali (Indonesia) and Bandung (Indonesia). Although my Bandung trip is yet to confirm on the dates but I am very sure and determined that my trip will be successful because it might be my last trip with my ex-colleagues because they might set up a family soon, by then, they wont be as free as now..
But.. my Bali trip has been confirmed. scheduled to fly in April 2009. Going there for 5 days and 4 nights. Gonna be abit boring because will be going there with a couple but, I am hoping that I won’t feel out of place. Haha… 
Anyway… I do hope that :-
1) stable in my job and contented to stay
2) financially stable
3) able to adapt to my new environment
4) also able to find my life partner by next year…
5) my family will be happy, no arguments, nor sadness that surround us for the past 1 year since my late grandmama died and my late grandmother.
6) everyone I loved, friends that I know, relatives will be safe and sound
This is what I wished for year 2009. Hehehe… HAPPY NEW YEAR!
Today I was late to work, slightly late! It is because I have returned my signed contract to my future employer. I didn’t return the contract in the 1st place because I had no time! And furthermore, my future boss has been enquiring whether I am joining them anot.
Today also, finalized everything for my resignation.
My last day will be on 5th December 2008. My official date. I am happy but feeling abit sad for leaving a bunch of good friends behind. Well, what I have decided earlier will not change my mind of retracting my resignation lor. Guess what? I am happy too because all of my burdens have lifted off my shoulder.
One word.. TIRED!
They have been pressuring me with workload, more and more ridiculous projects la.. and others, shaking legs. What I get, NOTHING.. I’ve been asking myself for months,… where am I getting to? Promotion? Increment? Special bonus? all those are not rewarded.. felt like not appreciated.
These things won’t happen anymore. If my future company is doing the same thing, I will again tender until one day, whose know? I might not be working in Malaysia.. go as I plan earlier… going abroad. Leaving everything behind but definitely need alot of courage to do so especially leaving my old folks behind!
Anyway, so far, I am happy with my future company. Been communicating with Mr C and Mr O and even Mr L.. they were phraising my future boss. I heard, he is a good guy. Well, I can’t wait to work under him.. I really do hope that he has the same leadership like my former boss, SW. I miss her very much.
She took care of me, patiently wait until I am fully understand litigation works. She was the reason why I didn’t find another job for the last 2 years. For me, it is not the monetary that lure me into an organization but environment.
I did ask these things from God, and He granted me this wish.. but everything changed after management changed. Everything is just so difficult for me to hold on. Been giving warnings and telling him dissatisfaction but fell on deaf ears. I am tired of repeating the same thing.. so, I have been treating him indifferent and guess, he did not realise what are the problems until I tendered my resignation!!
I am tired and leave this happy family for good also not a bad thing.
I have learned two basic theories..
1) never be too good to your boss.. coz you will never know that he might be using you!
2) never be too good in work because you will be in trouble with workloads compare with the existing staffs…
No doubt, I will exercise exact behaviour when I was in banking line – in my new company.. being indifferent, being quiet and never get involved in politics.
Overall, my satisfaction to work in existing company is still the highest despite those unpleasant events. I love my work and I love my environment but…
Finally, my trip to Berjaya Hills is over and I will be free for the entire weekends this week. I am damn happy!
I’ve been traveling for the past 3 weeks with my friends, colleagues and family members. Not that I don’t appreciate the vacations with them, I am just feeling too tired.. tired even just think of traveling.
And I will be traveling to Genting Highland next week for my friend’s birthday cum gathering. My college gathering and only meet them either 2/3 times a year. I will appreciate this trip geh.. and Derek will be bring his gf this time. I am glad that she is back from UK and I am hoping that Derek won’t be bother to disturb me, as he did for the past 12 weeks without her!! < got scared of him at times> < =.= >
Probably after Genting Highland’s trip, I will be going to Cameron Highland with my family members. I don’t know whether my parents want to go anot. It’s been years since I was there! I think should be 5/6 years liao!!
See how it goes ler. I’ve been asking Monkey to go Cameron but she said she was there last January. Ling2 said it’s far. So, have to find others to go.. so I chose my family! Hahaha…
Today I want to retire early.. my eyes kind of getting swollen from lack of sleep :-p
Yes, I’ve watched Journey to the Centre of the earth and I enjoyed it although it is not logic!!
Hahaha.. I’ve laughed on top of my voice after I was scared by mystical creatures created in this movie. Hahaha.. like the dinasour, the carnivore plant and the beautiful bird… but I would suggest if someone really wanna watch that movie,.. better go for 3D. Regretted now for not watching in 3D. Aih, what to do? The 3D movie ticket is much more expensive than the normal ticket (about RM17) when I can get normal ticket @ RM7 today *WEDNESDAY*.
Hahaha… worthy to watch that movie and this saturday, I am going for the HELL BOY movie. No one wanna watch that hancock with me. Probability letting it go and save my money for the MUMMY movie which is going to premiere on 31 July 08.
Argh.. now sleepy! Sleepy head gonna offline…
Haha… I do hope that my HK trip will be successful. I’ve been thinking about that place since my sisters came back from that country in 2006. Unfortunately, I was unable to go with them as I was newly attached to my company.. aihz..
Now, I am arranging it but of course, have to wait for Air Asia promotion because it will be budgeted trip. Can’t afford to go for nice and cozy hotel because everything needs MONEY!!
Hehehe… neway, I am kind of excited.
Although my trip will be in a year’s time and we don’t know what would happen in a year time.. maybe VT gotten herself pregnant? Or me changing job etc etc.
But I am kind of optimistic about my trip.. hopefully God will hear my prayers..!
My colleague planned our trip to Lang Tengah for snorkeling and also to Pulau Perhentian (if sufficient 10 ppl).
It only costs RM550 each.
We will be going in 3 months time.. I think it is a reasonable amount to spend on the island since it include bus ticket, plane ticket, accommodation, activities planned by the resort and most importantly the foods!
I do hope that there will be BBQ activity. I’ve missed my Pulau Pangkor’s trip and certainly do not wish to miss this trip as well.. At times I do feel regret for not joining my former collegemates after we have finished our exams for final year!. It’s been 4 years now and in fact, Dennis the organiser has left the country for studies.
This trip will have 8 members (confirmed members as at 5.15pm). Guess what, most of them are my Phuket trip geng lor. Kind of excited .. in fact more excited that my feeling for Bandung trip lorz. Hehehe… maybe becoz of him joining lor,
I do hope everything go on as usual
